SELF-DEVELOPMENT IS IMPORTANT IN A PERSON'S LIFE

In order for things to change in your life, in order to pursue where you want to be, you have to be into the person who is ready for the change. Self- development is vital to your success and has presented many opportunities in our lives. But where do you start if you want to begin your self-development journey? Some people felt wrong to change. It is not easy to build self-improvement. Actually, by starting with simple ones will give you boost and can enhances your confidence.

How can you figure out in which direction you need to develop yourself and grow now and in the nearest future and what your priorities are? Only by analyzing your current life and figuring out what kind of life you want to lead in the future, as well as what you need to do to get there. I believe that the first action is to take some time to self-reflect. Ask yourself.

What I want in my life?

What I want to be?

What I want to change?

How are my finances?

How are your relationships with family and friends?

Once you’ve had time to reflect, write down your thoughts and by putting those thoughts down on paper helps them to become real and will encourage you to follow them further. I also always ask myself, what I want in my life when I felt down. Self-reflect is so important in order to get better self-development journey.

Next is take a step. Just take a step. Taking a step is a start of moving your dream forward. Although you can never guarantee that all actions will result to success but it’s always much better than not doing anything. You will muster the courage to face your fears in the process of making small steps of action. Taking a step shows you are making a commitment. A commitment reflects the changes that we are ready to absorb in our life that really pleases you and keeps you happy. As keeping your soul happy will definitely build a happy and joyful personality and the surrounding environment happy. Once you make a commitment, some of the incredible doors will open for you.

For examples:

Build on your strengths:  I love reading and writing. Previously I don’t’ any idea that writing can be expand into digital media. So, what I do is create a blog and start posting my writing. How? I take a step by searching all the information regarding blog writing. Actually, constantly working on your skills will give rise to the ability where an individual will become master of his or her unique skills.

Overcome your fear and negative thoughts: We all know that no one is perfect in this world. Everyone on this earth have some fear and this fear thus retards the overall self-development. Hence you should always work and focus on the positive side of every aspect.  As for me, I have revenge issues and they’ve been destructive to some important relationships. To overcome this matter, what I do is find and talk to someone who is I think have positive vibes. Don’t be ashamed to call your longtime friend that you never reach out previously. You would be surprised that this friend will help you on your situations.

Forget the past: We often see people around us regretting for the things that they have performed in the past, in the form of mistakes, commitments, etc. which harm the self-development. So do I. I also have experienced down side when I resigned my job in 2016 as Department Manager in one of biggest retail store in Malaysia. Then I noticed that it won’t help me to find a new job.  Again, Self-reflect.  Hence, one should always focus on the present situations, leaving back the past. So, we should not spoil today’s happiness remembering the past.

Holiday: How about a break from the same, boring, tiring and stressful day or situation? You can plan a small vacation or holiday to please the body and refresh the mind, which in turn will automatically increase the graph of output that is being liberated by our body. Believe me, it always works. You will feel more motivated and will decrease some burden in your mind.

The life is competitive and tough you have to get tougher to achieve those higher goals. That is why crucial for everyone who aspires to accomplish anything have to make numerous attempts and keep on trying even after failing, when it comes to goals that truly matter to you. 

I know very well what it feels like when you cannot achieve a goals or what you want, you will spend days and nights thinking about it but I also know that there is only one solution to not let the absence of the desired outcome take your enthusiasm away from you. Just do things that are good for you, so you will become happy and healthy. You need the change to positive mindset. The moment you claim personal responsibility over your life, you will learn the importance of steering your own ship. You will start to make decisions for yourself and end up feeling less stressful and happier. We live in a digital information age. All the information is at our finger tips. Reflect. Research. Take a step and make on your own journey.

RESEPI 57: SPICY CHICKEN GINGER | AYAM MASAK HALIA PEDAS

Hello Everybody!

How is your day? Hope you guys have a wonderful day. Before I start, I would like to shout out birthday wish to my two beloved close friends – SAHABAT:

3 of US

DIDIE

FB: Shafieepawandee Didie Shariff

DATIN ZARA ZURA

FB: Zara Zura

I’m so fortunate enough to have this two good friends, a bond that is truly unique and special. Thank you always being there to listen in good and bad times.  

Happy birthday! I hope it is filled with awesomeness!

And May Allah bless both of you with good health and wealth and also a happy life.

I love you guys!

Okay, now let me share with you guys my new recipe, Spicy Chicken Ginger. I love Ginger a lots. If you all notice, most of my cooking ingredients, have ginger. Ginger is among the Healthiest Spices on the planet. Ginger contains hundreds of bioactive compounds and nutrients, some of which may contribute to health and healing. It helps stimulates digestion, lowers blood pressure, reduces nausea, reduces inflammation, antibacterial properties, blood-sugar regulator, eases menstrual pains and relieves joint and muscle pain.

Ginger can freeze very well, so it’s easy to keep plenty in stock. In addition to the root, both ginger extract and ground ginger have powerful therapeutic effects.

So, all in all ginger is pretty good stuff! Have a go at combining it into your cooking and see how much better you taste for it!

Now, let’s check it out the, Spicy Chicken Ginger recipe!

 

Spicy Chicken Ginger

INGREDIENTS

1 bowl of chicken, cut into 3/4-inch chunks

1 large egg white, beaten until frothy

1/2 cup spice flour – Brand PUAS or BESTARI

3 tablespoons sweet soy sauce

2 tablespoons OYSTER sauce

2 tablespoons chili sauce

2 tablespoons chili paste

3 tablespoons sugar

4 tablespoon minced garlic

1 ½ inch chopped ginger

10 spicy dried red chilies, broken in half

10 Thai chilies – minced it

1-2 Holland onion – cut into 4 sizes

METHODS

Combine chicken, egg white and ½ cup of water in a bowl. Mix in the spice flour a little bit at a time until the chicken are well coated. You can marinate this chicken about 2 hours.

Heat oil in a deep-fryer or large saucepan.

In batches, carefully drop the chicken into the hot oil one by one, cooking until they turn deep golden brown. Remove the chicken and drain on a paper towel-lined plate.

In the same oil, fry the dry chilies about 1 minute. Remove and drain the oil.

For the sauce, heat 2- 3 tablespoons oil in a wok over medium. Add garlic and ginger.  Cook until fragrant, about 1 minute.

Add chili paste, ½ cup of water and cook for 5 minutes. Then add sweet soy sauce, oyster sauce, chili sauce and sugar. Cook about 3 minutes until the sauce thicken.

Add chicken and Thai chilies and toss to coat in sauce.

Reduce heat to low and cook for a few minutes until the chicken absorbs some of the sauce.

Last but not least, add the fried dry chilies and Holland onion. Stir a bit. Done!!

RESEPI 56: SWEET PUMPKIN SOUP DESSERT | BUBUR LABU | SERAWA LABU

Do you love pumpkin?

Do I love pumpkin? Yes, guys! I really love pumpkin especially this recipe. Pumpkins aren’t just for carving or pie making. This fruit offers health-boosting properties. It is also a delicious ingredient for soup, muffins or even pancakes. Eating more pumpkin will benefit you in a number of ways such as antioxidants, protects your eyes, improves sperm quality, reduces inflammation and boosts your magnesium consumption. 

What’s else you need? Let’s check it out my recipe of pumpkin now! By the way guys, fyi, this is Malay style of cooking dessert ok.

SWEET PUMPKIN SOUP DESSERT

Ingredients

½ Pumpkin (about 2KG) - cut into dice

½ cup sago pearls

1 pandan leaves (tie into knot)

2 ½ tbsp. sugar

1 tbsp. brown sugar

1 tsp.  salt

1 small box coconut milk/santan – I used KARA brand

2 - 3 cups water

Methods

Steam or boil the dice pumpkin until soft. Once soft, pour into a bowl and set aside.

Now, cook one small box of coconut milk and 2-3 cups of water with medium heat.

Once it boiled, add the sago pearls and pandan leaves and cook the sago about 5 minutes or it become translucent. Stirring it occasionally to avoid the coconut milk become separated from the water.

Then add brown sugar, sugar and salt. Please taste and adjust as your preferences.

Now, add the steam pumpkin and slowly stir the soup. If your soup is thick, you can add a little bit water and taste again. Make sure the soup tastes sweet and a bit salty.

Done!
You can serve this pumpkin soup dessert either warm or put in the fridge for cold taste.

You can remove the sago pearls from the recipe if you don't like it but it tastes better with the sago pearls.
It thicken the soup a bit.

Let's eat ME!

DON’T MESS WITH TORTOISESHELL CAT

Hello guys…

Let me introduce to you guys to my beloved cat. KOKO. She was so adorable and playful. She is a tortoiseshell cat. What is a tortoiseshell cat?

 

Hello there! My name is KOKO.

Tortoiseshell cats are unique felines with brilliant color patterns, unique personalities, and a rich history. They are known as Tortie cats or simply Torties which are named after the Colorful Tortoise Shell material. However, they are known by many names in different countries. For example, tabby-patterned Torties are called Torbies. The term Calico refers to Torties with white markings in the US and Canada. And sometimes they’re also called simply Tricolor Cats. But as long as you use the universal term Tortie, you can never go wrong. These kitties can come in some pretty crazy colors. Cream, white, chocolate, ginger, fawn, lilac, black, red… the list goes on and on! The asymmetrical markings of the tortoiseshell patterns can also be diluted.

 

I'm Watching you...Keep reading ok!

In other words, Torties vary in terms of their physical appearances. In fact, KOKO have 4 colors, black, white, orange and chocolate. And that’s yet another reason as to why they’re so fascinating and beautiful.

Actually, my husband found KOKO at one of the coffee shop near our house. She trying to cross the road. OMG! Thank God, she’s safe and we can adopt her. I think many tortie lovers may notice that tortoiseshell cats tend to have a bit of Catitude.

 

i like to take a short nap here!

So many tortoiseshell humans have experience this sass and have even given it its own name Tortitude. They have a higher tendency than a lot of other cats to scratch, bite and show other aggressive action, whether provoked or not. They can be a little friskier and feistier and also known as highly energetic kitties. I notice this ‘tortitude’ behavior in KOKO. She likes to bite me and chase me to play with her. OMG! I’ve been pet many cats but this is all in. She has all ‘tortitude’. I can describe her as stubborn and strong-willed type of cat. So demanding in terms of foods but we can’t help but love her anyway.

 

or here....

Guess what? Some people think Tortoiseshell cats are lucky! In traditional folklore, the tortoiseshell cat was said to bring Good Luck. For this reason, the cats are sometimes called “money cats” in the United States. Not only are torties considered good luck charms, but they may just ward off ghosts and evil spirits, according to Japanese culture. In Scotland and Ireland, it’s seen as good luck when a tortie comes into your home. An old English wife’s tale says you can cure warts by rubbing them with a male tortie’s tail. Obviously, these cats were treated as something more superior than a mere domestic pet.

This is my 1st picture at home

Anyway, whatever type of cat you have, show your pet the love and devotion in deserves and it will cherish you for the rest of your lifetime. Cats have unique ways of showing us just how much they hold their pet parents dear. If you can prove to your fluffy companion that you truly care about it, you’ll have a lifelong trusty and affectionate furry pal that’s eagerly waiting for you to come back home.

Love you KOKO!

Don’t mess with KOKO, OK!

 

This is ME now..
Don't mess with KOKO..

RESEPI 55: KARI TELUR SEDAP DAN SIMPLE

Just nak share resepi malas dan yang paling senang tetapi sedap. Kari telur atau gulai telur enak di makan dengan sambal belacan dan nasi panas-panas. Let’s check it out!!

BAHAN-BAHAN

5 biji telur (rebus hingga masak, dibuang kulit)

2 biji ubi kentang - potong 4

1 bungkus rempah kari ayam babas

2 sdb. Rempah kari ayam adabi

1 tangkai daun kari

3 ulas bawang putih – hiris halus

2 biji bawang merah – hiris halus

½ inch halia –hiris halus

1 cawan santan kotak

2 cawan air

3 sdb. Air asam jawa

2 biji cili besar atau cili api

Garam & gula

CARA-CARA

Tumis daun kari , bawang putih, bawang merah dan halia

Masuk kan rempah kari  dan 1 cawan air ke dalam mangkuk. Gaul sebelum masuk ke dalam periuk tumisan tadi. Masak hingga pecah minyak

Masukkan air asam jawa dan kentang. Gaul seketika.

Masukkan pula santan dan telur bersama 1 cawan air.

Masak hingga mendidih.

Kemudian perasakan dengan gula dan garam mengikut taste buds masing-masing.

Akhir sekali masukkan cili besar yang telah dipotong serong.

Done !!

 

Don't judge a book by its cover.
Even this picture nampak murung tapi rasanya delicious tau!!

DEPRESSION IS TAKING OVER MY LIFE - HELP ME!

Hello guys.

What do you do when you felt so down? Stress or depression? How you handle this feeling? The loneliness? The pressure? It seems that nobody cares about you. This is the feeling that I try to avoid but human being have their own limitation. I am a person that always think positive. I believe whatever happen, I need to stay positive because in the end, it will solve no matter what. Unfortunately, I can’t hold this feeling anymore. I’m so depressed! 

Depression can negatively affect how you feel, the way you think and how you act. It seems that I’m going to be crazy! I’m so angry. My mood swing even it is not my period. It’s like a monster inside your head that takes over. This depression causes feelings of sadness, feeling worthless and guilty. I feel miserable and hopeless. I cried so bad! Why all this happen to me? Why my life is not as smooth as other people? Anything that was said to me, I managed to turn into a bad thing. I was literally my own worst enemy. I had no motivation to do anything and I believe everyone was faking their love for me. I wanted everyone to know how I felt but I didn’t dare to tell them. I keep all in my heart and mind so long and I think this is the trigger of my depression. On the day happen, I’m feeling so sick. I have bad headaches and my eyes hurt. I can’t sleep and I need something so that everything in my minds goes away. Then, I took 2 paracetamols and finally I can sleep.

I woke up on the next morning with mix feeling emotions. I felt so guilty to what I have done yesterday. I realized I need Allah. Yes, I know that I am not a good Muslim but I need Allah (SWT). Only Allah (SWT) can help me. Only Allah (SWT) can hear my misery. I prayed. I cried badly and I really pray so that Allah can forgive me and hope all my difficulties goes away. Alhamdulillah. I felt more calm. Ask and you shall receive. Yes, no matter how big your need is or how difficult you think your problem is or how messy your situation is it is a matter of Kun Fayakun for Allah (SWT). Have firm faith that your ‘dua’ will be answered and your wish will definitely be granted. Allah (SWT) is able to make all the ease into something difficult, as well as difficult into ease. Nothing is hard for Him because He is All Knowing and Almighty over all.

A lesson I learnt from this situation is there is nothing wrong in turning towards Allah (SWT) and asking His help in the times of hardship. A Muslim who turns to Him will realize that His help is far better than the help of some other person or the struggle, which a person makes personally. It is the way we deal with these hardships that matters and that effects the level and magnitude of suffering we experience in hard times. I should remain hopeful and complement the efforts I makes with faith in Allah (SWT) for getting through this hardship gracefully.

No matter what difficulties you’re facing, know that God has your back. He’s there even when things seem hopeless. He’s there when the circumstances are darker than you ever imagined. He's there when everyone has given up on you. Place your trust in him for he is ALWAYS there.

P/S: I wrote this a while ago when my feeling is terribly sad and now I'm OK already. I just want to share with you guys in case you have the same situation.

REVIEW: MCDONALD’S PROSPERITY BURGER – BEEF PATTY

Hello guys.

Today I want to review on McDonald’s Prosperity Burger.

In Malaysia, for every Chinese New Year, McDonald’s rolls out their Prosperity Burgers. The Burgers comes with two patties which is beef and chicken. I have previously had the prosperity burger, and quite liked it in the past.

OK now, Let’s Celebrate the return of the Prosperity Burger!

Prosperity Burger with beef patty

I bought Prosperity Beef Burger set which comes with Twister Fries and Mc Fizz. I change my fries to normal fries because I don’t like the taste of Twister Fries. For me, it quite salty.

What I like about the burger is that the sesame seed bun Does Not Go Soggy even though the patty is soaked in a good amount of black pepper sauce, giving a nice textural contrast. I read some review that their bun goes soggy and messy because of the sauce. I think some store are Generously put the black pepper sauce into the burger and it turn out soggy.

The Black Pepper sauce was both peppery and quite sweet, and it was as 'fresh' as the heat led it to be. It topped with fresh onions.

Personally speaking this year, the burger seems to have changed something about either the sauce or the meat that I just can’t quite put my finger around. I think it is not so spicy compared to last year.

Overall, I would say the beef is my favorite even I didn’t try yet the chicken patty. The beef just works way better with that black pepper and the onions! This is the 4^th times I eat McDonald’s Beef Prosperity Burger since it launched this year. I also like their drink McFizz. So refreshing!

Rating:4/5

My receipt

MY ENEMY IS MY FRIEND/FAMILY: CHOOSE YOUR CIRCLES WISELY

Hello guys.

Everyone has friends and families, right? Or, maybe everyone just thinks they do. Do you have an experience related to this topic? When your friend or family becomes your worst enemy or we can call it ‘frenemy/famnemy’. I define a frenemy/famnemy as a someone who respects and hates you at the same time. We all have them. That one friend or family we plaster on a smile for because we can’t stand him/her. It’s the one where we use air quotes when describing him/her as a “friend” or “family”. A frenemy/famnemy is someone you’re friendly with despite disliking him/her. Your dislike could be derived from rivalry or jealousy, or maybe he’s/she’s simply not your cup of tea. He/She could be an enemy you’re friendly with, or an untrustworthy person that you need to keep close tabs on because you can’t really trust him/her. Or he’s/she’s not really your friend/family that you might just pretend to be for one reason or another.

I started looking up the meaning of “relationship” mainly because we live in an era where nobody seems to remember the meaning of it anymore. I think the word relationship gets thrown around inappropriately these days. I look around and think about my own personal experiences and others that I have observed, and most everyone has had an experience where they thought their particular relationship was genuine, only to discover that betrayal or insincerity was present. It is all too common that people’s selfishness gets in the way of their ability to be a good friend or family member. Few things are more heartbreaking than discovering that the people closest to you never really cared for you or loved you. They only be with you because on your wealth or benefits that they can get from you and when you having a bad situation, they gone.

The best way to decide whether this relationship might not be healthy is to be honest with yourself about how you feel when you’re with them. Do you generally feel worse when you hang out with them? Do you feel drained of energy any time you spend time with them? Toxic relationship is bad for our mental health and wellbeing. If you can’t improve the relationship, you should think about letting it go.

So choose your circles wisely. Surround yourself with those who genuinely love others and who care more about morality than what people think about them. In the same way, be good to them. Be willing to put the needs of others ahead of yourself; that’s the true meaning of the word “friend” and “family”.

RESEPI 54: SAMBAL IJO & SAMBAL PENYET WITH CHICKEN

I really love spicy foods. I love to cook spicy dishes. Sambal is my favorite especially sambal from Indonesia such as Sambal Ijo and Sambal Ayam Penyet.

This sambal cooked with chicken

Sambal Ijo has its own distinctive aroma and flavor because it is made from green chilies. Green chilies taste different from red chilies. The green color of Sambal does not mean that it’s not as tasty as other Sambal with red color. Sambal Ijo is a Fairly Spicy relish, not so spicy as you imagine because green chili is unripe chili and not yet grow to the hottest stage!! You can also serve this sambal to accompany fried side dishes such as deep-fry fish, fried chicken etc. It's simple relish but taste really delicious!!!!  

If you have low tolerance to spicy food but want to try Sambal, you can choose Sambal Ayam Penyet as a starter. It tastes sweet and Not Too Spicy despite of its dark red color. This sambal has similar ingredients to Sambal Belacan, but with addition of tamarind extract and nowadays, I noticed that some of seller make Sambal Ayam Penyet quite hot and use a lots of chilies. So, the recipe I want to share today is the combination of Sambal Ijo and Sambal Penyet. Let’s check it out!

INGREDIENTS

1 Bowl of Thai Green Chillies

15 Red Bird's Eye Chillies

6 Shallots

5 Garlic Cloves

4 Kaffir Lime Leaves

½ Inch Belacan/ Shrimp Paste

1 Tsp Salt

4 Tbsp. Sugar

1 Pcs Dry Garcinia Atroviridis a.k.a Asam Gelugur

Green Thai Chili that I used in my cooking

This is Red Thai Chili

This is Red & Green Bird Eye Chili

This is Dry Garcinia Atroviridis a.k.a Asam Gelugur

METHODS

Heat 5 tbsp. Oil and fry green chilies, red chilies, shallots and garlic about 3 minutes until fragrant. Then pound it using a mortar and pestle or grind coarsely in a food processor.

Using the same oil, cook the chilies paste.

Add 3 cup of water. And wait until oil floats to the top of the paste because moisture has

evaporated.

Add salt and sugar. Season based on your taste.

Later add the dry Garcinia and the kaffir lime leaves and mix well about 2 minutes.

Done!

You can served this sambal with hot rice and fried chicken.

MUSIC: ARIANA GRANDE ‘7 RINGS’ – MUSIC VIDEO & LYRIC

Ariana Grande-Butera is onto another massive hit!

The pop star dropped her highly-anticipated song ‘7 Rings’ with its accompanying music video. ‘7 Rings’ is one of her most hip-hop sounding solo tracks with thick beats, a laidback delivery full of attitude around the chorus and some proper Rapping during the middle-eight. The lyrics of this track focus on themes of money, wealth and friendship. It was written and inspired by her buying matching rings and 6 of her friends after she called off her engagement to Pete Davidson. It is also about her sharing advise that a little retail therapy can help you push through when you're feeling totally down - in her case, after calling off her much-public engagement.

The result of this track is incredibly Catchy and highly Addictive.

It screams Smash Hit so loudly.

In her music video sees Ariana Grande with her posse in a neon-drenched dream world, complete with ever-flowing champagne and all possible shades of pink.

Rating: 4/5

Check out '7 Rings' below.

7 Rings Lyric

[Verse 1]

Yeah, breakfast at Tiffany's and bottles of bubbles

Girls with tattoos who like getting in trouble

Lashes and diamonds, ATM machines

Buy myself all of my favorite things (Yeah)

Been through some bad shit, I should be a sad bitch

Who woulda thought it'd turn me to a savage?

Rather be tied up with cuffs and not strings

Write my own checks like I write what I sing, yeah (Yeah)

[Pre-Chorus 1]

My wrist, stop watchin', my neck is flossin'

Make big deposits, my gloss is poppin'

You like my hair? Gee, thanks, just bought it

I see it, I like it, I want it, I got it (Yeah)

[Chorus]

I want it, I got it, I want it, I got it

I want it, I got it, I want it, I got it

You like my hair? Gee, thanks, just bought it

I see it, I like it, I want it, I got it (Yeah)

[Verse 2]

Wearing a ring, but ain't gon' be no "Mrs."

Bought matching diamonds for six of my bitches

I'd rather spoil all my friends with my riches

Think retail therapy my new addiction

Whoever said money can't solve your problems

Must not have had enough money to solve 'em

They say, "Which one?" I say, "Nah, I want all of 'em"

Happiness is the same price as red-bottoms

[Pre-Chorus 2]

My smile is beamin', my skin is gleamin'

The way it shine, I know you've seen it (You've seen it)

I bought a crib just for the closet

Both his and hers, I want it, I got it, yeah

[Chorus]

I want it, I got it, I want it, I got it

I want it, I got it, I want it, I got it (Baby)

You like my hair? Gee, thanks, just bought it (Oh yeah)

I see it, I like it, I want it, I got it (Yeah)

[Verse 3]

I got my receipts, be lookin' like phone numbers

If it ain't money, then wrong number

Black card is my business card

The way it be settin' the tone for me

I don't mean to brag, but I be like, "Put it in the bag," yeah

When you see them racks, they stacked up like my ass, yeah

Shoot, go from the store to the booth

Make it all back in one loop, give me the loot

Never mind, I got the juice

Nothing but net when we shoot

Look at my neck, look at my jet

Ain't got enough money to pay me respect

Ain't no budget when I'm on the set

If I like it, then that's what I get, yeah

[Chorus]

I want it, I got it, I want it, I got it (Yeah)

I want it, I got it, I want it, I got it (Oh yeah, yeah)

You like my hair? Gee, thanks, just bought it

I see it, I like it, I want it, I got it (Yeah)